We want to be parents… Is that so much to ask?
We are a young couple that has been together for 8 years now. We are just recently married and wanting to have a baby so badly that we can’t stand it. It’s not just that we want a baby… We want the experience of being parents. Waking up all hours of the night to feed a crying baby, playing peekaboo and hearing their first words, waking up to a thunderstorm to a scared child, watching cartoons for every season and holiday. We want to be parents. We are not rich by any means. We aren’t even close. But why shouldn’t we be allowed to be parents? I am having a very hard time getting pregnant. We have been trying to get pregnant for two years now and it just isn’t happening. I’m currently taking Clomid but we still aren’t having any luck. His sperm count is good. It seems like everyone around us is having children that don’t even want them. They say they were accidents or they just have to deal with them. It seems so wrong. What I would like to find is a young woman who can’t provide for their child that wants to see them go to a loving home. We may not be able to provie designer clothes and diamond encrusted cribs but we can provide clean clothes and a safe loving home for them to live and grow. I am tired of watching everyone treat their children like they are a chore. I guess I’m just venting though. I’m sure it’ll happen when the time is right… I’m just tired of waiting and getting my hopes up.
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You know how when you lost an object, and you search and search for it tirelessly and it seems nowhere to be found and then when you stop looking it’s right in front of you ? That’s what it’s like for a lot of people with a situation like this. You’re little miracle comes when you stop trying to hard and wanting it so much.
You are richer than 90% of people on Earth, you have your health and you have a husband. You are very lucky, so stop moping and count your blessings.
Have you looked into adoption?
I DONT CAREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Just don’t think about it EVERY TIME you two are intimate.
Your baby will come when its meant to be. I kept thinking about
getting pregnant, after my first son turned 2 and It didn’t happen
as soon as we wanted one. I eventually ‘gave up’.. well I didn’t
give up cause in the back of my mind, I wanted another. I just
didn’t think about it all the time and 2 years later, we had another.
who is now two months old.
Good luck!
Hey, its okay to rant. Be patient, it will happen when it happens
Not sure if the watched pot analogy applies here. But for the time being, just enjoy your life. Have a healthy lifestyle and give it time. The wait can be frustrating but it’ll pay off 
Don’t rush it!
If u want a child from other biological parents. You have to go through the proper adoption proceedings.
Otherwise it is child trafficking. Potential adoptive parents must be assesed and with good reason.
Just Lost My 1st Angel
, I read your question, then noted your yahoo nickname so took a look at your profile, ever likely your feeling this way. I’m so sorry for the loss of your little one. Life doesn’t seem fair at these sad times, it does seem like others get what they want in this world without appreciating what they have but we all know that this isn’t really how it is. On a positive, at least you know you can be pregnant and I’m sure in time you too will join other parents in moaning about how tired you are after a sleepless night with your baby. People do moan, it’s human nature but underneath they know they are blessed to have children.
All the best and good luck!
If you want to adopt then go through the proper channels. Soliciting a baby online is called child trafficking and is against the law in America and will get you thrown in jail. I don’t agree with soliciting birth parents anyway in this country. If God intends for you to be parents then you will. If God doesn’t intend for you to be parents you will not be. Everything in your life, everything that has happened, is happening, or will happen to you is already written, as God wrote everything that will will happen in your book before He created you. Quit moping and count your blessings. You have a husband. You have food and clothing. You have a warm place to sleep at night. So many people are dying of starvation or disease in the third world. So many people are living with the constant threat of war like Afghanistan or Yemen or Sudan. You do not realize how lucky you are to be alive.