I haven’t gone in to the doctor’s to confirm the pregnancy yet, but how in the heck do you manage all of that, when you have a feeling the father might get scared feet and run.

I live with him now.
We’ve been dating for over a year.
It was unplanned.
I’m of legal age.
and I have no where else to go if he runs.
but if he stays, even, how do you support a kid on low income and going to school?
how do you do all that AND give your child the attention it needs.
There’s no way in hell i’d give my kid up for adoption and not know how it’s going to be treated later in life.

and what if there’s medical problems?
and what if we can’t afford it?

Is there someone out there who can give me a detailed explanation of how it’s possible,
and by what resources can you get help.

I need to know what would qualify me for certain plans and insurance and discounts on things like baby clothes, diapers, formula, etc.

because I’m ready to own up to my responsibilities,
but lord knows I’m not prepared as of right now for it.

PS, for those of you who like to leave nasty comments (i see them all the time posted up)
leave your ignorance for another post. k thanks :]




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Do you have any diapers, Enfamil Lipil formula, baby wipes, or baby boy clothing that you no longer need?

I had an unexpected rapid-growing ovarian tumor and three surgeries and have had lots of medical problems within the last year which caused severe financial difficulties. We do not qualify for WIC (we have to be 100-185% below poverty in our state), I have to formula-feed for medical reasons, and I do not have family to help me.

Money is extremely tight right now, I am giving birth to a baby boy in November, and we can use all the help we can get. We still need many items for our little one. I would be more than happy to send you some coupons or other items that I have today. Please let me know at shamrocklove@yahoo.com.

Thank you with all of my heart. <3

P.S. I have joined freecycle.org and craigslist.org but there are many wanted items for similar things in our area.

If you can sincerely help, please e-mail me at shamrocklove@yahoo.com. Thank you <3
I have Publix baby coupons, Target baby coupons, and possibly Similac Advance that I can swap with you.
Dear Javail,
I tried to contact you but Yahoo Answers says "User does not allow e-mail." Can you change your preferences or e-mail me at shamrocklove@yahoo.com. Thank you! :o )




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Do you have any diapers, Enfamil Lipil formula, baby wipes, or baby boy clothing that you no longer need?

I had an unexpected rapid-growing ovarian tumor and three surgeries and have had lots of medical problems within the last year which caused severe financial difficulties. We do not qualify for WIC (we have to be 100-185% below poverty in our state), I have to formula-feed for medical reasons, and I do not have family to help me.

Money is extremely tight right now, I am giving birth to a baby boy in November, and we can use all the help we can get. We still need many items for our little one. I would be more than happy to send you some coupons or other items that I have today. Please let me know at shamrocklove@yahoo.com.

Thank you with all of my heart. <3

P.S. I have joined freecycle.org and craigslist.org but there are many wanted items for similar things in our area.

If you can sincerely help, please e-mail me. Thank you <3
EM, I deleted it because I was harassed by another member. I pray to God that you are never in the same situation. You have no idea what I have been through. Please leave me alone and go bother someone else.
If there are any moms out there who can sincerely help, please e-mail me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.




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Do you have any diapers, Enfamil Lipil formula or checks, baby boy clothing, a monitor, sterilizer, or other baby items that you no longer need?

I had an ovarian tumor and three surgeries and have had lots of medical problems within the last year which has caused severe financial difficulties. We do not qualify for WIC, I have to formula-feed for medical reasons, and I don’t have family to help me.

Money is extremely tight right now, I am giving birth to a baby boy in 9 weeks, and we can use all the help we can get. We don’t have anything for our baby. Once we get back on our feet, I could send you any coupons or kids items that I come across if you want. Please let me know at mrssoldier33@yahoo.com.

Thank you with all of my heart. <3

P.S. I have joined freecycle.org and but haven’t received any responses yet. I also tried craigslist.org but there are not any free items in my area (just lots of wanted).
If there are any moms or dads out there that are in a position to sincerely help, I would appreciate it more than you realize. Once we get things back in order, I can send you any coupons or items I come across for your children in return. Thank you <3 <3




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Do you have any diapers, Enfamil Lipil formula or checks, baby boy clothing, a monitor, sterilizer, swing, coupons, or other baby boy items that you no longer need?

I had an ovarian tumor and three surgeries and have had lots of medical problems within the last year which has caused severe financial difficulties. We do not qualify for WIC, I have to formula-feed for medical reasons, and I don’t have family to help me.

Money is extremely tight right now, I am giving birth to a baby boy in 9 weeks, and we can use all the help we can get. We don’t have anything for our baby. Once we get back on our feet, I could send you any coupons or kids items that I come across if you want. Please let me know at mrssoldier33@yahoo.com.

Thank you with all of my heart. <3

P.S. I have joined freecycle.org and but haven’t received any responses yet. I also tried craigslist.org but there are not any free items in my area (just lots of wanted).
Autumnishere, I had the tumor before we got married and therefore was not covered under my husband’s insurance. Most insurance companies would not cover me and the one that did charged me 00 a month. You’ve made me feel even lower by having to ask for help. Despite your true ignorance, I still hope that someday you never have to experience this. Good luck to you.
If there are any moms or dads out there that are in a position were they can sincerely help, I would appreciate it more than you know. Once we get back on our feet, we can send you any coupons or kids items we come across if you need them.




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Does anyone out there have any baby coupons, Enfamil formula checks, Enfamil Lipil formula, diapers, baby boy clothing, or other baby boy items that they do not need? I had an ovarian tumor and have had lots of medical problems within the last year which has caused severe financial difficulties. We do not qualify for WIC. Money is extremely tight right now, I am giving birth to a baby boy in 9 weeks, and we can use all the help we can get. Please let me know at mrssoldier33@yahoo.com.
Thank you with all of my heart. <3

P.S. I have joined freecycle.org but haven’t received any responses yet.
I also joined craigslist.org but there are no free baby items in our area (just wanted items!) Thank you though.




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Right off the bat, I think women who say they need abortions for health reasons are full of it. Prove me wrong. I encourage you to use all the proof and real-life examples you can. Also, if ya’ll have the time, tell me why they just can’t remove the baby by C-section and put it on life support, so that way, both the baby and the woman have a chance to live.
If I was a doctor, would I be asking this question? Think people.
Wow. "…a baby is basically like a parasite that feeds off of society for a long time until it becomes self-sufficient." Yup, that just makes your answer all the more convincing. I appreciate the example, but not that comment. Try to remember that you were a parasite once and be glad your parents didn’t abort your sorry behind.
AND, who the hell says all women are sufficient? Are the crack whores sufficient?
I read what you wrote Elizabeth, quite clearly. I realize some women have medical problems that require abortion. Yet no one who answered this question has told me exactly what conditions make abortion a needed choice for survival except for hmasson. I haven’t much time in my schedule to do the research, that’s why I posted this question. I needed extra help finding the facts. But it looks like some people of the women’s health section either don’t know or just want to be useless. I wanted sources for doctor’s say on the matter; instead, I mostly got people’s opinions, NOT what I asked for. I appreciate the statistics you gave, though, Elizabeth, I would have just liked a source as well.
I’m sorry for getting edgey on you hmasson. It’s just that when you made that comment, it sounded as though you were the kind if person who would practice infanticide or something. I understand your point about the essentiality of women, but these essential women don’t appear out of thin air. How can you say that you stole your mother’s kidney? My mother used to tell me that she would jump in front of bullet to save me. Should I blame myself for stealing my mother’s life if she would have done that? Guilt has a way of making people feel less worthy than they are. If I understand you right, it’s what’s going on with you. You think that your medical difficulties have made you a thorn in your family’s side. But didn’t they give you the treatment? The kidney? We aren’t animals. You can argue that, scientifically, we are, but in spirit, we are above this game of survival of the fittest. We have medicine, science; we don’t just let people die. I understand the need for a woman to survive.
I just want the reasons so that I don’t have to feel any malice towards women who are actually sick, and can’t keep a baby. In my mind, I need to separate them from the women/girls who carelessly get pregnant and eliminate the unwanted baby, because for them, I feel no pity.
I understand Alda. I realize you have a very deep love and appreciation for life, and I respect that. I was considering reposting this question elsewhere, but I’ve decided against it. Honestly, I don’t think anyone is sure about the medical circumstances that eliminate a fetus or, at least sure when these circumstanes are genuinely come into play. Before medicine, many women died in childbirth. Nowadays, the death rates during childbirth have decreased dramatically, so it’s really hard for the women to determine, in my opinion, whether the child is either life-threatening or just inconvenient, because in her mind, she wants to get rid of this baby as soon as it presents a serious problem. Pregnancy is stressful enough, so a difficult pregnancy is not something women want to go through. Yet, some are willing. Sure, doctors know, but they can only suggest things, not enforce them.

God, this detail page got long. X(
If Namaste ever comes back (which I doubt) this question was straight up about health. YOU made it an issue about morals, not me. Putting a bit of my opinion on the detail page did not give anybody the right to go off on me. If they really needed to though, they needed to give me a decent answer first, then rant. Honestly, I doubt you know what you’re talking about. Yes, you know that if a fetus threatens the mother’s life, the doctor would recommend an abortion, but that’s obvious, and, I think, about all you know. The rest of your answer is opinion. No fact (accept your personal experience, in which you didn’t even tell me what condition they were in) and mostly opinion. Okay, I’m done now.
A somebody tell Madame to edit her lame-*ss answer.
(Correction: ^ *And*) Okay, really done now.




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Premature Infant Question?




I’m not too familiar with premies, but I have a child in my room at the daycare I work at. He is 14 months old, size 3-6 month clothes are baggy on him, his soft spot is about the size of the top of a soda can and it is sunken in a pretty good bit. He crawls and pulls himself up but when assisted to walk he stiffens himself up to where he is very rigid and wont move anything. Is this normal for infants this age and being premature, or is there something wrong.

Also the childs physican has stated that he is normal size for his age group and that he has no medical problems at all when the child has sever exemia.
He was a month premature
Per talking to another relative of the child that comes to the center. The parents put regular baby lotion on his skin and it does nothing for it. I have asked the parents question about this child and they seem very distant, the only thing I have obtained from them is that he will be on formula until he is two years old.




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Christmas worries?




I am a mother of two little boys. This has been a really rough year for my family. In March I had my second one, and he was born breech, we live in a small town and the hospital here was not equipped to take care of him after he was born so he had to be flown out. My husband lost two weeks of work when that happened. My husband lost about 3-4 days of work a few weeks after that when he was hospitalized for kidney stones (I made him go after he passed out in the shower)
Later on he finally went to the doctor for some medical problems he was having. After a bunch of tests, they sent him to a neurologist who put him on anti-inflammatory and pain medicines. After an about a week of taking these pills we were home one evening and…
He had just got back from the fire station( he is a volunteer fire fighter) they were called out, but it turned out to be a false alarm so they were signal eighted. Well he got home and tried to start the weed eater and couldn’t get it started, and when he came in he seemed fine, but sweaty. He went to the bathroom and I hear a crash, I went to check on him, he had gotten up by the time I made it in there, and was heading back to the living room, and he just kept, well it was like he was tripping. He was sweaty and cold, when he finally made it to the kitchen he just passed out, and he was pail, it was scary, I had a baby on my hip and the big one was trying to get my half conscious husband to play with him. I called the ambulance( he works for the ambulance as an EMT) and they took him to the hospital were he spent a week in the ICU(he was bleeding internally, stress ulcers down his throat and into his stomach) turned out the medications the neurologist had put him on had irritated the ulcers and got them bleeding. And the doctors not only took him off work an extra week, but also told him that he could no longer work on the ambulance. So he has been driving a tanker, but it was seasonal work, so when it got cold he started getting less and less work. So, now we are behind on our mortgage, utilities car, and insurance payments. So Thursday my husband left to start driving cross country, leaving us here.
So it has been and still is a tough year, and I am worried about how to come up with Christmas presents for my boys. The little one is only eight months so he really won’t care, but the big one is nearly two. And I have tried the Salvation Army but it is too late. They don’t really have to even have toys, we’d be happy with winter clothes and shoes… but anyway,
. And it kind of feels good to finally just blurt it out and rant a bit.
I am just wondering if anyone knows were to go or who to ask
Thank you




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Do you have any diapers, Enfamil Lipil formula, baby wipes, or baby boy clothing that you no longer need?

I had an ovarian tumor and three surgeries and have had lots of medical problems within the last year which caused severe financial difficulties. We do not qualify for WIC, I have to formula-feed for medical reasons, and I do not have family to help me.

Money is extremely tight right now, I am giving birth to a baby boy in November, and we can use all the help we can get. We still need many items for our little one. I would be more than happy to send you any coupons or kids items that I come across once we get things back on track. Please let me know at shamrocklove@yahoo.com.

Thank you with all of my heart. <3

P.S. I have joined freecycle.org and craigslist.org but there are many wanted items for similar things in our area.




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