Should confront my sons grandmother?




My sons grandmother has never seen or checked on the condition of her grandchild since he was born.
However my sons father claims that she asks how he is doing and also what size clothes he wears she claims that since he is a preemie it is hard for her to pick up items for him..Whatever..but anyways i sent her texts for various holidays and no response sent her a picture of my son and no response.. so i am like whatever then my sons fathers tells me that she got the text.WTF this woman is playing games or her son is i dont believe that she cares but i want to call her out on her crap because i think my sons father is lying.. i know its sounds stupid but i need some sound advice




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My grandmother is wanting a new nightgown but I’m having a hard time finding anything that is not silky or geared for a younger woman. Any suggestions?




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so first my grandfather Question: so i loved my grandfather he was nice and he gave me alot of cool gifts, he really cared about me, but after he died my mother finally told me why she hated him so much *my father’s father is the grandfather i am talking about* any hoodle i found out that the basterd beat his wife WHILE she was pregnant with my dad!!! he also beat my father when he was a kid! THEN my grandfather slept with the babysitter and got her pregnant so he had to devorse my grandmother to marry the babysitter!!! so should i love him for how nice he was to me for 10 years or should i HATE him for the terrible stuff he did over a time of 40 years!!!

second: now i am 16 and i am a virgin, i want to have sex so bad but i never had/ dont have a boyfriend, i am nervis about my first time IF I EVER GET IT and i am wondering if there are any tips you could give me to make my first time THE BEST TIME (anything i should say, what songs i should play, were, when, condoms? should i use them my first time becasue i want it to be all natural AND is it weird for me to ask him to get tested for a diseas BEFORE i sleep with him (just to be safe?) or can you only get it by sleeping with someone?

PLEASE WRITE THE QUESTION FIRST THEN ANSWER BECAUSE I HAVE SO MANY I WONT BE ABLE TO FIND OUT WHAT GOES WITH WHICH




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Since grandmother Cindy stated the car smelled like a dead body ; and washed the missing toddler’s clothes from the car , the body would have had to be in there awhile . Do we know if Casey’s pals ever noticed a night out when Casey was conspicuously absent from the clubs ?




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My grandmother gave me baby clothes for my daughter that belonged to me (1970s) and my father (1940s). Some of them have oxidized areas, kindof a rust color on the fabric. How can I remove the rust & clean the fabric without damaging it?




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can i give up my paternal rights of my child???




i not trying to run away from anything or be a coward, ive been through hell with my childs mother, im tired of my daughter coming home and telling me "callate el osico" thats spanish for shut the hell up, except shut the hell up sounds nicer, she comes home with clothes that are either 1 year smaller or 2 bigger, we haver her clothes for her but dont let her take it cuz we never see it again, i cant count on CPS because when she was about 6 months old she was shot in the face with a pellet gun at point blank by her uncle in the prescience of the mother, the mother lied to me saying it was something else, i dint believe her, 1 week later my neighbor told me the story, i immediately proceeded in calling CPS, they supposedly investigated, i got a letter stating they found neglect, took the child and gave her to her grandmother, they never advised me of what was going on, later i found out they had removed almost all charges and that CPS dint find enough evidence to take the child away or do anything in respect, ohh yeah and my childs mother told everyone how the case worker and her became "friends", this happens alot in brownsville, tx. (corruption)… like i said im not trying to run away and disown my daughter but i dont think its fair for both me and my child to be going through all of this, and well i dont have the money to afford a lawyer, what i want to do is open a bank account under my childs name, and instead of sending the mother money, which we know she dosent spend on my child, i would rather put it in her account, for when she turns 18 she can have money, hopefully for college, or for whatever necessity she might need… i knew someone who received 10,000 from his dad when he turned 18, but dont know what steps to take, i kinda dont wanna ask at the office of the attorney general because we think she knows someone in there, and dont want her to find out, plus ive been told lies before from the workers there, like my cousin said, "its because we are male, no one can help us in this situation", he gave up on his daughter, he hasnt seen her in 5 years, and every time he goes to the attorneys gen. office they tell him to get a lawyer cuz they wont do anything for him… please if someone can guide me in the right direction, or what steps to take, i would be eternally greatfull… !i havent given up hope yet!




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I’m trying to find the pattern for the baby blanket that my grandmother made for me. It was at my grandfather’s house when he died and we lost it.

Here is a link to the picture.

http://www.thehobbybarrel.com/catalog/images/crafts/bow%202.jpg

I hope someone has it or knows how I can get it.. Thank you for any help.




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Is it wrong to throw yourself a baby shower?




My grandmother was originally going to throw me a baby shower but she recently broke her foot and she is no longer able to. I decided just to do everything myself, with the help of a friend and my mom. My mother-in-law says it is wrong for me to do this. What do you think? Is this wrong?




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well a diaper raffle is when you bring diapers to a baby shower in exchange for a chance to win a prize. so i was thinking for every item bought on my baby registry, one raffle ticket will be given for every the gift is worth. I was thinking there should be a maximum amount of tickets given to each person so people who bought big 0 gifts wont end up with 20 tickets and to round up gifts worth like gifts will be consider and as and so on. that way people are more likely to buy what i requested, have the gift receipt, and not buy multiples of the same item. the prize would probably be a gift card to the mall or a gift basket. my sister had a baby registry and no one but me and my grandmother bought from it. my sis ended up with thirty blankets. 2 playmats, 2 carriers, lots of preemie clothes (the baby was born 8 lbs) and no receipts.

would you consider doing something like this yourself? are you most likely to play? anything you like to add or suggest i should not do in the game?




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A friend of mine is contemplating taking custody of her newborn grandson who was born to a heroine addicted mother. I have extensive experience with heroine addicted adults and few if any, ever get off methadone. What are the short term and long term implications of caring for a methadone baby? Should the grandmother have access to Narcan?




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