Okay, so I’m 24 and my fiance, Spencer is 26, and lately, I’ve been getting sort of worried about him lately. He usually has a pretty high sex drive, as do I, and a lot of weeks, we’ll end up having sex almost every day, even if it’s just a quickie. Well, usually, Spencer sort of takes the lead during sex. He’s never had a very good image of himself, even though I think he’s just perfect. He has, however, always been fairly confident in the bedroom, and I think it’s really sexy when he takes control and gets almost animalistic. He’s really passionate, and it’s often been that tearing off clothes, hair-pulling, wild sex.

Well lately, for some reason, Spencer has become really self-conscious during sex. Lately, he’s been working out a lot, because he’s never been happy with his body. All of his friends are all very skinny, where Spencer’s a bit stockier. He’s not overweight by any means. He works out and eats healthy and all; he’s just got a more solid build. He also has really defined hips for a guy, which he for some reason associates with being out of shape, which isn’t him at all. Well, since he started working out more than usual, he seems to have actually gotten more self conscious. When we have sex now, he rarely shows that animalistic side of him; he holds back, and I can tell. He’s so passive now, and I’ve asked him what’s wrong, but he just tells me, "Everything is fine, baby." I just want him to be how he was before, because I miss it. He just has this warped perception of himself lately, and it shows the most in the bedroom. Once the clothes come off, he gets shy and passive. What should I do to make him realize that I think he’s sexy just how he is? I just want him to feel confident again. What should I do?




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Okay, so I’m 24 and my fiance, Spencer is 26, and lately, I’ve been getting sort of worried about him. He usually has a pretty high sex drive, as do I, and a lot of weeks, we’ll end up having sex almost every day. Well, usually, Spencer sort of takes the lead during sex. He’s never had a very good image of himself, even though I think he’s just perfect. He has, however, always been fairly confident in the bedroom, and I think it’s really sexy when he takes control and gets almost animalistic. He’s really passionate, and it’s often been that tearing off clothes, hair-pulling, wild sex.

Well lately, for some reason, Spencer has become really self-conscious during sex. He’s been working out a lot, because he’s never been happy with his body. All of his friends are all very skinny, while Spencer’s a bit stockier. He’s not overweight by any means. He works out and eats healthy and all; he’s just got a more solid build. He also has really defined hips for a guy, which he for some reason associates with being out of shape, which isn’t him at all. Well, since he started working out more than usual, he seems to have actually gotten more self conscious. When we have sex now, he rarely shows that animalistic side of him; he holds back, and I can tell.

He especially hates his hips; he thinks they’re feminine, when they’re not really that bad. I like them; but whenever he feels like I pay too much attention to them (Holding onto them for too long, or whatever), he shies away. He’s so passive now, and I’ve asked him what’s wrong, but he just tells me, "Everything is fine, baby." I just want him to be how he was before, because I miss it. He just has this warped perception of himself lately, and it shows the most in the bedroom. Once the clothes come off, he gets shy and passive. It’s not that he’s bad in bed now; he’s still amazing. It’s just that I know it’s not him, and I like seeing that wild side of him that he hides the rest of the time. What should I do (especially in bed) to make him realize that I think he’s sexy just how he is? I just want him to feel confident again. What should I do?




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I’m breastfeeding our newborn boy, but I wanted to start bottle feeding him. I’m not changing to formula..ever. I’m going to breast pump my milk into a bottle. I was wondering when it’s okay for me to start this?
I want my fiance to be able to help me out with feeding.




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Okay, so I’m 24 and my fiance, Spencer is 26, and lately, I’ve been getting sort of worried about him. He usually has a pretty high sex drive, as do I, and a lot of weeks, we’ll end up having sex almost every day. Well, usually, Spencer sort of takes the lead during sex. He’s never had a very good image of himself, even though I think he’s just perfect. He has, however, always been fairly confident in the bedroom, and I think it’s really sexy when he takes control and gets almost animalistic. He’s really passionate, and it’s often been that tearing off clothes, hair-pulling, wild sex.

Well lately, for some reason, Spencer has become really self-conscious during sex. He’s been working out a lot, because he’s never been happy with his body. All of his friends are all very skinny, while Spencer’s a bit stockier. He’s not overweight by any means. He works out and eats healthy and all; he’s just got a more solid build. He also has really defined hips for a guy, which he for some reason associates with being out of shape, which isn’t him at all. Well, since he started working out more than usual, he seems to have actually gotten more self conscious. When we have sex now, he rarely shows that animalistic side of him; he holds back, and I can tell.

He especially hates his hips; he thinks they’re feminine, when they’re not really that bad. I like them; but whenever he feels like I pay too much attention to them (Holding onto them for too long, or whatever), he shies away. He’s so passive now, and I’ve asked him what’s wrong, but he just tells me, "Everything is fine, baby." I just want him to be how he was before, because I miss it. He just has this warped perception of himself lately, and it shows the most in the bedroom. Once the clothes come off, he gets shy and passive. It’s not that he’s bad in bed now; he’s still amazing. It’s just that I know it’s not him, and I like seeing that wild side of him that he hides the rest of the time. What should I do to make him realize that I think he’s sexy just how he is? I just want him to feel confident again. What should I do?
I don’t know what the hell you’re talking about… A video…? Whatever.




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How do you make a monogram?




I want to make a monogram for my fiance and I for our wedding program.




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Where can I get cute baby clothes?




My brother’s fiance had their baby girl today. I’m already in love. <3
My real question though, is where is a good place to get cute clothes for her?
Are there any online botiques that you recommend?

Thanks!




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My daughter is getting married and wants to create a monogram with her first name initial, her fiance’s last name initial, and his first name initial and use it on the invitation. Someone told her it is not proper to use the monogram before the wedding. There are so many invitations using a monogram.




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Ok so I ve always been a deep thinker . My fiance is a gemini and I don’t think those signs are suppose to good together but we ve been together ten years so it can’t all be true.

Anyway I think constantly about everything we’ll be driving along and I tell him and he’s always shocked like you’ve thought about all that in 5mins . lol

So this si true of my star sign I am very intense , enigmatic, loyal unless crossed I do hold a grudge I think about how friends have let me down for long time . I can’t get ack to friendships after that’s happened I turn into a fake friend really I guess.

I intrigued by cats and I do own a black one , I like training aniamls we apt re drawn to intelligent ones.
I love blue-green colors , I love water such a water baby I could live in it . I love secrets and mystery .

I don’t really like insects though although I love butterflies , as long as they aren’t real lol . Love clothes with them on and drawings , art etc.
I don’t really have any red clothes but if I am going for sexy I proable will choose red underwear etc and red tones of flowers .

But it says you have good instinct I guess I do for what to do in situtaion but not with friends so many friends have let me down. Guess I wouln’t have trusted them if I had better judgement. I am true to most of it and guess I do believe in lot of this stuff .

So how bout you ? Are you a true scorpio ?
Very interesting comments spesh serenity and liveandd very deep true to form.
Thanks for sharing I am quite wanting to find out about the moon in cancer and all that stuff.
also looked at friendship compat and the friend I had big deal with was an aries apt it’s a make or break . Most of my good friends are gemini’s ( strange 3 of my closest friends) then libras and virgo’s.
My h2b is not a gemini am sure of it he does have energy but loves to chill and is very laid back . He hardly talks tho but maybe I talk for both us . .We both love animals, sports , fun and holidays he’s not one for water tho which disappoints me but he enjoys the dark sexual things lol His temper varies tho he ‘s either cheerful or grumpy
hmm he is a puzzle.Maybe that’s why it works .
a m it’s interesting to hear you with Gemini. Thinking am not a fake friend as I haven’t gone out of my way for this friend now as she used me to slag off a friend of hers and now they best buds again and don’t bother with me . They both aries to ..strange . I do still care though but when I say fake friend I mean no longer feel loyal to her and don’t count her as friend anymore but don’t like confrontation so will just get on with it altho will hold a grudge against her for long time .
why can’t I chose best answer ??
ah thought that might of been bf best friend !




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Im 16 weeks pregnant & my MIL is driving me nuts since Ive been pregnant. When we first told her, she was like "Oh, I hope its a boy!" and has been saying that ever since which I feel is so selfish & odd. She has two sons, what is the big deal with having a grandchild who is a male?? And if our baby is a girl, is she going to love it less or be dissapointed?? My fiance & I have no preference what gender our child is & why should she? I just find it rude & want to say something everytime she says that, but I bite my tongue.

Now, I know she means well, but she keeps getting us used baby clothes from Goodwill. And, she works at a major store in the baby & kids clothing department where there are tons of new, cute baby clothes. I know money is tight sometimes & for that reason, I can understand BUT, she spoils & babies her first grandchild & buys her tons of new stuff & spends money traveling to go see my fiances brother & sister in law 2 hours away & is always with them every weekend. I just think if she was that tight on money as my fiance says, then she wouldnt be spending alot on her grand daughter & traveling every weekend & doing activities w/ them all of the time.

I dont want to sound ungrateful here about used baby clothes, but come on! I just feel like she is viewing our kid as the 2nd grandchild so who cares, lets just give our kids sloppy second hand me down clothes from Goodwill & spend money & spoil her first grandchild. Arrrgh.

Im just glad that my parents are there for us & are buying us new things & getting us things we need, like a crib. I have never once heard my MIL ask us the things that we need like she did her other son. Its just frustrating & I have to keep biting my tongue like tonight when she came to visit & said AGAIN, "I hope its a boy" Uggggggghhhhhhh!
To the 4th person who commented, I dont dislike her, I know she means well & I know I sound sort of snotty for thinking that her giving us used baby clothes from Goodwill is tacky. But, there are other things she has done since Ive been pregnant to really rub me the wrong way & luckily my fiance has said something to her about it & I just feel like someone with common sense wouldnt do some of the things she has been doing.

She is really religious & when we first told her we were expecting, she seemed happy but a month or so later she emailed me a link to a plus size wedding dress as if to hint around that we should be married before having a kid in her passive aggressive way. I took offense to that, because Im not dumb or naive & can tell what she was trying to get at. Im 29, my fiance is 32 & we have been together for 3 yrs & were planning a wedding when we found out I was pregnant so I dont know what the big deal is about having a baby unmarried & it shouldnt matter to her!
She has every right to buy us whatever she wants as I told my fiance tonight who was sticking up for her (of course, he’s a mommas boy) but that doesnt mean I have to put my child in the clothes. I just dont understand why she spoils her first grandkid & buys her new, nice things from the store that she works at, & gives us old, smelly hand me downs.




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My fiance and I will be getting a house soon (we live in an APT right now) By the time we move, my baby will be 1. I can’t think of any ideas for her nursery. I like yellows and purples, and I like the butterflies and girly stuff like that. Can you give me some inexpensive ideas? Thanks!




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