Okay, so I’m 24 and my fiance, Spencer is 26, and lately, I’ve been getting sort of worried about him. He usually has a pretty high sex drive, as do I, and a lot of weeks, we’ll end up having sex almost every day. Well, usually, Spencer sort of takes the lead during sex. He’s never had a very good image of himself, even though I think he’s just perfect. He has, however, always been fairly confident in the bedroom, and I think it’s really sexy when he takes control and gets almost animalistic. He’s really passionate, and it’s often been that tearing off clothes, hair-pulling, wild sex.

Well lately, for some reason, Spencer has become really self-conscious during sex. He’s been working out a lot, because he’s never been happy with his body. All of his friends are all very skinny, while Spencer’s a bit stockier. He’s not overweight by any means. He works out and eats healthy and all; he’s just got a more solid build. He also has really defined hips for a guy, which he for some reason associates with being out of shape, which isn’t him at all. Well, since he started working out more than usual, he seems to have actually gotten more self conscious. When we have sex now, he rarely shows that animalistic side of him; he holds back, and I can tell.

He especially hates his hips; he thinks they’re feminine, when they’re not really that bad. I like them; but whenever he feels like I pay too much attention to them (Holding onto them for too long, or whatever), he shies away. He’s so passive now, and I’ve asked him what’s wrong, but he just tells me, "Everything is fine, baby." I just want him to be how he was before, because I miss it. He just has this warped perception of himself lately, and it shows the most in the bedroom. Once the clothes come off, he gets shy and passive. It’s not that he’s bad in bed now; he’s still amazing. It’s just that I know it’s not him, and I like seeing that wild side of him that he hides the rest of the time. What should I do to make him realize that I think he’s sexy just how he is? I just want him to feel confident again. What should I do?




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Is it safe for me to paint the baby's nursery?

I am 16 weeks pregnant and am planning the baby’s nursery. I am unsure if it is safe for me to do so with the fumes. I know there are things you can add to paint to take taht "paint smell" out of it. Would that be better?? And if I wear a mask or make sure all of the windows are open?? Or am I going to be forced to make my fiance do it………he hates painting and I love it!!




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Okay, so I’m 24 and my fiance, Spencer is 26, and lately, I’ve been getting sort of worried about him lately. He usually has a pretty high sex drive, as do I, and a lot of weeks, we’ll end up having sex almost every day, even if it’s just a quickie. Well, usually, Spencer sort of takes the lead during sex. He’s never had a very good image of himself, even though I think he’s just perfect. He has, however, always been fairly confident in the bedroom, and I think it’s really sexy when he takes control and gets almost animalistic. He’s really passionate, and it’s often been that tearing off clothes, hair-pulling, wild sex.

Well lately, for some reason, Spencer has become really self-conscious during sex. Lately, he’s been working out a lot, because he’s never been happy with his body. All of his friends are all very skinny, where Spencer’s a bit stockier. He’s not overweight by any means. He works out and eats healthy and all; he’s just got a more solid build. He also has really defined hips for a guy, which he for some reason associates with being out of shape, which isn’t him at all. Well, since he started working out more than usual, he seems to have actually gotten more self conscious. When we have sex now, he rarely shows that animalistic side of him; he holds back, and I can tell. He’s so passive now, and I’ve asked him what’s wrong, but he just tells me, "Everything is fine, baby." I just want him to be how he was before, because I miss it. He just has this warped perception of himself lately, and it shows the most in the bedroom. Once the clothes come off, he gets shy and passive. What should I do to make him realize that I think he’s sexy just how he is? I just want him to feel confident again. What should I do?




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Can I claim any taxes……..?

I live with my fiance. He and his mother are on the mortgage. I am not due to poor credit. Mortgage is about ,200.oo. My fiance pays 0.oo and his mother pays 0.oo each month. After credit improves I will be added, and we will refinance the home. I do not contribute to mortgage now, but I pay all the utility bills and pitch in half of groceries each month which adds up to 0.oo. He is divorce with sole-custody of his child. Childs mother gets less than 10 hours a week. I take my fiances child to school every morning M-F, which is about 2 miles. I also pay towards the clothing, toys, recreational items, accessories, bed room decor, etc.. When I moved in with my fiance, my commute to work had changed from 20 miles (both ways) to 70 miles (both ways) "In the process of looking for another job." Is there anything I can claim out of this, or no.
I reside & work in Arizona.
What brought me to this, was because my fiance claimed HOH, and I figured his mother would claim that.




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I am currently 19 weeks 4 days pregnant with our first baby and have started buying baby clothes here and there when Im out – just cant resist.

That being said I keep tending to buy clothes in the 3 months size range NOT the newborn stuff because it just looks TOO small!

The newborn clothes look like they would hardly fit on a doll let alone a baby! I was an average size when I was born – 7 lbs, and my fiance was 10 lbs when he was born…

That being said I worry that if I buy newborn clothes they simply wont fit the baby when he/she comes.

About how many lbs is the ‘newborn’ size supposed to fit?




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I am due in October with a baby girl and my fiance and I still haven’t decided on a name. My name is Autumn, my sons name is Ashton, and my fiances name is Jacob, so we are looking for a name that starts with the letter J.




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Changing table…?

I really want a changing table in my son’s nursery and my mom and fiance keep saying it’s a waste of money but I think it would be helpful plus a nice addition to his room. Where can I get a changing table for a good price? Do you think this is a waste of money too? Thanks everyone =]

26 wks & 2 days pregnant w/ baby #1




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I am pregnant and am looking for some very uncommon/exotic names for a baby boy or girl. My fiance and I have picked out a few for each but are looking for some more which you would see very rarely. So far for a boy we have Emmitt, Devlin, Elias, Dante, and Xavier. For a girl we have Iris, Misha, Lyla, and Rowan. Does anyone know any uncommon names?




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i have no idea what i am doing. i am looking everywhere online and i am not getting any answers.
i live in kempner texas not far from austin. my baby is 8 months and me and my fiance is realy interested in getting our baby into modeling.
where do i look? does any one have any expierience?

this is our baby:

http://a510.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/96/l_1f0b8ebc6557fce222911cb395bff265.jpg

http://a888.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/101/l_ee49c5248bd9d8f43b007b9bc18a8f5f.jpg




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Okay, so I’m 24 and my fiance, Spencer is 26, and lately, I’ve been getting sort of worried about him lately. He usually has a pretty high sex drive, as do I, and a lot of weeks, we’ll end up having sex almost every day, even if it’s just a quickie. Well, usually, Spencer sort of takes the lead during sex. He’s never had a very good image of himself, even though I think he’s just perfect. He has, however, always been fairly confident in the bedroom, and I think it’s really sexy when he takes control and gets almost animalistic. He’s really passionate, and it’s often been that tearing off clothes, hair-pulling, wild sex.

Well lately, for some reason, Spencer has become really self-conscious during sex. Lately, he’s been working out a lot, because he’s never been happy with his body. All of his friends are all very skinny, where Spencer’s a bit stockier. He’s not overweight by any means. He works out and eats healthy and all; he’s just got a more solid build. He also has really defined hips for a guy, which he for some reason associates with being out of shape, which isn’t him at all. Well, since he started working out more than usual, he seems to have actually gotten more self conscious. When we have sex now, he rarely shows that animalistic side of him; he holds back, and I can tell. He’s so passive now, and I’ve asked him what’s wrong, but he just tells me, "Everything is fine, baby." I just want him to be how he was before, because I miss it. He just has this warped perception of himself lately, and it shows the most in the bedroom. Once the clothes come off, he gets shy and passive. What should I do to make him realize that I think he’s sexy just how he is? I just want him to feel confident again. What should I do?




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