my mom is a VERY manipulative person, she lies all the time and hits me and has a tendancy to put her hands behind her back and walk up to me and push me with her body and say "im not hitting u im not hitting u" and nudge me very hard…once she nudged me so hard she made me fall into my computer stand and slam my head into the edge so i blocked myself from her ….she started to hit me…so i hit her in the head…thats where this begins
i went to the mental hospital to get help to be stabilized on meds because my mom said its my fault shes always mad at me and and shed never hit me if i didnt say anything stupid. but sometimes se even yell at me if my 5 month old was crying, and id be making her a bottle…and i wouldnt be holding her at the same time…well, when i was in the hospital my mom told everyone ..the nurses the doctors..everyone that i beat her everyday infront of the baby. well when i got out, and i was home 3 cops came in with a social worker and took my baby away and took her to a childrens home for the night
the next day we all had a meeting, and they evaulated potential family members who could have custody. my mom couldnt because the state made my mom get a restraining order against me, and now im reported as an ELDER ABUSER! (shes 60!) and they wouldnt give my baby to the fathers family unless the father moved out of his families home (they said he neglected our daughter because he knew what was going on at my home about me beating my mom…but he said he tried time and time again to get her away from my MOM the one who caused all the problems…but whenever he tried…my mom said if i let the baby go to his house, she would kick me out!) so my daughters father is now homeless, he gave up his home just so our daughter wont go into foster care! and im semi homeless…well i have a friend to stay with for a week.
but this is my question. our court date is monday. now, her fathers parents have custoday and im happy with it. but does it sound like the judge will be ok with the dad moving back in? like will it be easy to convince him that it was not the fathers fault he could not bring the baby out of the chaiotic enviroment that she was living in due to my mother? and also, do u think that since there has been wittnesses and i can probably find more wittnesses that have seen my mom start physical fights…can i convince the judge that i did NOT beat my mom so we can all be with my daughter!?
cindy b shut up, i am old enough to have a child i lost my job! i am 23 years old , do not judge you do not know what we are going through!
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