I would like to find a place that sells online designer clothes for girls or toddlers. Brands like Oilily or paper wings in that style. Most sites are expensive and sometimes I can find them on ebay but I was wondering if there was a site maybe a small retailer. They are hard to find in this country.




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We are a young couple that has been together for 8 years now. We are just recently married and wanting to have a baby so badly that we can’t stand it. It’s not just that we want a baby… We want the experience of being parents. Waking up all hours of the night to feed a crying baby, playing peekaboo and hearing their first words, waking up to a thunderstorm to a scared child, watching cartoons for every season and holiday. We want to be parents. We are not rich by any means. We aren’t even close. But why shouldn’t we be allowed to be parents? I am having a very hard time getting pregnant. We have been trying to get pregnant for two years now and it just isn’t happening. I’m currently taking Clomid but we still aren’t having any luck. His sperm count is good. It seems like everyone around us is having children that don’t even want them. They say they were accidents or they just have to deal with them. It seems so wrong. What I would like to find is a young woman who can’t provide for their child that wants to see them go to a loving home. We may not be able to provie designer clothes and diamond encrusted cribs but we can provide clean clothes and a safe loving home for them to live and grow. I am tired of watching everyone treat their children like they are a chore. I guess I’m just venting though. I’m sure it’ll happen when the time is right… I’m just tired of waiting and getting my hopes up.




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3 of my friends had babies in high school. they all kept the babies. none of them know who the baby daddy is. they all seem to have awesome lives. they come to school and then get to hang out with friends after school as long as they want. their moms take care of the babies for them. they party every weekend. their parents give them money whenever they ask. they all have new iphones and the newest macbooks and designer clothes. they dress their babies in designer clothes and carry coach diaper bags. my parents won’t buy me designer clothes or bags or give me money and i don’t even have a baby! i have to work after school and can’t party all that much. how come my friends have awesome lives and babies? oh and i forgot to mention that they are all popular with boys still and are still pretty and have nice bodies even after having babies.




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…the ability to go out to the movies, buy name brand glasses, have an iPhone (and even give their kids an iPhone bc we all know what a great example that is), go clubbing, have parties..and even have extra money to buy cigarettes (a pack a day) and alcohol?

I wouldn’t say this is limited to NYC, at all, but I’m just curious. I have run into TONS of people here like this. I work at a hospital. I am currently conduction my rotations in The Bronx. Yes, I know it’s not the ideal place. But I cannot help but to notice that almost EVERY single person is on Medicaid…half of them can’t speak a lick of English…and others are popping out their 4th-7th kid. I enter their room and they are on their iPhones…putting on their gawdy jewelry, etc. They even have time to take a break outside to smoke. Some are in there because they were smoking and drinking too much. They have nicer clothes than me..designer clothes.

How do you do this while you’re on welfare? I went to undergraduate school with a lady who was on her 4th kid. She didn’t work AT ALL. Had an apt., food, baby diapers, child care..everything…AND she was ALWAYS going out to the movies, shopping for Coogi, eating out and taking her kids to eat out….how do you even beat the system like that? Craziness……….
Fifth–they already are. I was born here, my Dad did 20 in the Navy. I was homeless at 17.couldn’t get ANY type of medical care at ALL. Now you can call me one angry taxpayer.




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I really want to buy nice/ name brand clothing for my daughter. However I do not, ever, want to pay full price. I have tried looking on craigslist and ebay but they are overpriced or out of style, and i don’t really want used clothes anyway. I have tried the sale racks but they have a very small selection and its still way overpriced.

I know people who do not have any money, and yet they are able to buy designer clothes without breaking the bank. How do they do it? These people are acquaintances, so I don’t feel comfortable asking them.

I am not looking for speeches on how its a waste of money, they just ruin them, stain them, they’lll grow out of them fast. i know that, and it doesn’tt bother me.




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A man who doesn’t have a job. He collects money from the system, while having himself a little "hustle" on the side. His "hustle" involves breaking the laws of the land and selling controlled substances to his own brothers and sisters in the streets, creating addicts and poverty stricken individuals among his own, while lining his own pockets with silver and gold at their expense. He owns more than the currency in his pocket. In fact, he owns a CL600, designer clothes and a nice home in a gated community. He pays white police officers large sums of money to "look the other way" while he fills his own community with a product that binds and destroys, rather than blesses and uplifts. The woman who was there for him and loved him was abandoned by him, along with the four kids he created with her. Now the mother is rejected and all of these children have to be fatherless and just another statistic because the man who claimed to "love his black sistas and love black babies" couldn’t love them enough to stick around and take care of them.

He records a rap album about how "hard" he had it in the streets, along with what’s it’s like to keep it real, while black people (because he has a nice beat in his music ) say to themselves "This is a real n1gga!" He now makes even more money, but this time his product is different. Instead of selling crack to kids, he now sells them propaganda packaged and marketed as entertainment. His "product" causes other black youth to follow in his footsteps, creating other people just like him who sell drugs, abandon their women and kids and destroy their communities for profit, thus the cycle continues.

So, would a piece of crap like this be considered a sell-out? Why is a person like this a "real n1gga", but a person who, say, votes for John McCain is a self-loathing Uncle Tom?




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About our economy here in the U.S. ?




There has been much said about the economy here in the U.S. I wanted to add my two cents and get some opinions.

People say this and that about George Bush but people always need someone to blame when things go bad. If he never did anything else in office, he hunted, captured and executed Saddam Hussein, a mass murderer and perpetrator of genocide. He also had to contend with 9/11 and any President that steps in to that type of situation is going to do poorly in ratings with the public. People in this country sit in their air conditioned houses, talking on their cell phones and eating McDonald’s in 0 shoes with their supermax SUV in the f_cking driveway and their designer clothes and type into their 00.00 laptops how George Bush ruined the economy. People in this country are spoiled babies with nothing to do but complain. All over the world, people are dying of AIDS and starvation and disease and you’re bitching because it costs you to fill up your SUV? It makes me sick. The majority of people in this country have no idea what tragedy, poverty or recession really mean. Even the poorest person in this country is more fortunate than the poorest person in say, India or Africa or places like that. They (people here) can go to a Soup Kitchen and eat, a shelter and shower (or live if they want to). They are not living on a dirt street covered with garbage with no running water and no way to get medicine or food or anything else. There ARE options here in America. I’m not a political person at all but this attitude of ingratitude makes me f_cking sick, dude. Look at all we have and yet… people still gotta bit_ch.

What is your opinion on this matter?
"Who should they blame it on if not Bush?"

You totally missed the f_cking point, dude. Blame WHAT? We have it great here. People here are so spoiled and ungrateful they forget that.




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whats wrong with people and teens?




doesnt it seem like people in the US seem to be greedy.it seems like they dont really care about anyone about themselves.im just talking about the majority,they seem to live in a materialistic world.if they can afford it they dont give to charity,they dont go on mission trips and they dont VOLUNTEER and they dont do much else except listen to their ipods and buy designer clothes.of course they do other things but not much.those are just a couple of things that they do-also im talking about a lot of teenagers-not all of them but did you know that 1 out of every 24 teenage girls will have babies in the next year?-they are getting pregnant and are just dumb.they drink and drive and do drugs and SOME DO THESE THINGS NOT ALL-what do you think on this matter and why are people so selfish?
i am not trying to be prejudice but im an american and i hate it here.why i live its materialistic.also for the lady that had a child at 17 im not being mean im just talking about the people that dont mean to get pregnant and that are foolish and dont use protection.ok?besides if you do do it and get pregnant that is pretty foolish because if you think about the consequences its bad.thats all i can say.




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I am 19 years old and I am practicing safe sex with a BCP and condoms.

One of my best friends got pregnant in high school and kept her baby. She loves her baby more than anything in the world and is a very committed and good mother. BUT it does not seem like she has had to change her lifestyle very much. She still buys designer clothes and purses and finds time to get her nails done and go tanning.

Now 3 more girls that graduated in my class have gotten pregnant (one already had her baby) and they all seem to be doing well.

I know having a baby at a young age is not the best way to start your adult life. But all my friends seem to be doing fine. Plus, their babies are adorable and whenever I am around them I think about what it would be like if I had a baby.

I have been thinking about wanting a baby for about 4 months now. Is it normal for me to want a baby?? and is it really that hard to have a baby while finishing college??




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I think I should quit my job and rely on the system. Why not? I mean I paid into it. It is my money anyway. Other people are currently using my money. Other people that are highly capable of working reap from the system. Why can’t I? I promise to pop out babies constantly and complain that others are keeping me down. I promise to wear designer clothes and drive a expensive foreign car. I mean these are the requirements, aren’t they. I promise to whine about the rich man and how he owes me. I promise to worship Obama and all that he stands for. I promise to be ungrateful for everything that is readily given to me while most everyone else works their buns off to give it to me. Wow, what a cush life it will be.




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