This special needs child needs to be taken away from both parents for the rest of this childs life. The mother is retarded herself and lives somehwere in Las Vegas and the father a mind of a 12 year old child and lives in Henderson. When the parents did live together at one point in time this child lived in filth, let’s just say a pig lives better. The mother abandonned this child and never once come to see this child in 7 moths. The father has her but lives in filth, trash everywhere, dishes never cleaned,the child stinks, the child wears clothes that does not fit and the father has not bothered to get this child any and hopeing that others will feel sorry for the child and him and take it upon themselves and do it so that he won’t have too. The way he treats his dog he treats this child, never doing anything with this child but waits monthly for the check he gets for her. I can’t be in the middle of this for I will be hurting this child but also helping this child as well. I just need help for I’m tired of being in the moiddle and not answering questions when they need to be answered for I will find myself in the streets too. I hope no one in his famoily sees this for I will surley be on the streets quickley like in days or hours whith my clothes. Please someone help for I have nothing but the desert to look forward to live at and the child with the father in filth. I have much more to say but cannot. Please help this child.

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Okay so remember when I told you guys that she’s been doing drugs while she was pregnant well I took you guys advice and tried to get her help. It worked for a little while then she started using again. When I caught her using I told her I was calling the police but then she said fine call the police and then she split. She just up and left. I have no clue where she went and she’s been gone for a week now. All her clothes are gone and I’m worried. I need to find her. She ranaway with the baby. How am I supposed to be in the childs’ life now? I asked the cops and they said since the child isn’t born yet it’s not kidnapping, but how is that fair. She stole my KID!

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girl and i are expecting we are unmarried and not together but i have still helped her with buying a crib maternity clothes went to some doc appts with her etc. we have been freindly in order to raise child i will be getting dna test before i sign anything that way she will get child support from me and ill be able to establish paternity but earlier today when we was talking she said that with dna test or not its her choice of who her babies father is and that its up to her if i can be in the childs life or not is this true??

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girl and i are expecting we are unmarried and not together but i have still helped her with buying a crib maternity clothes went to some doc appts with her etc. we have been freindly in order to raise child i will be getting dna test before i sign anything that way she will get child support from me and ill be able to establish paternity but earlier today when we was talking she said that with dna test or not its her choice of who her babies father is and that its up to her if i can be in the childs life or not is this true??
she has even went as far as saying she can choose who her babies father is whether it be me or some future bf

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girl and i are expecting we are unmarried and not together but i have still helped her with buying a crib maternity clothes went to some doc appts with her etc. we have been freindly in order to raise child i will be getting dna test before i sign anything that way she will get child support from me and ill be able to establish paternity but earlier today when we was talking she said that with dna test or not its her choice of who her babies father is and that its up to her if i can be in the childs life or not is this true?? she even said it is her choice who her babies daddy is

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So lately my mom has been saying i cant dress exactly how i want and stuff during the new school year and cant get certain clothes, etc. So i asked her why and basically she said she is the parent and I asked for a logical reason why not and she couldn’t come up with one so says "because i said so" (Lol) and then I asked her how does being a parent justify her ability to control certain aspects of her childs life and she got kind of mad there because she couldn’t come up with a logical explanation and kept saying "thats how things are" and stuff like that etc.. Can you please tell me what to say or do so I can convince her to get certain clothes (its my own money).
She doesn’t like that most of everything I wear is black and doesn’t want me to buy anymore black pairs of shorts. That is why I asked for a logical reason why not.

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im pregnant. im 18. my ex and me were only together 3 months. hes 20. i broke up with him after i got pregnant because he is lazy, irresponsible, imature and i couldnt stand to be around him anymore. for a week or so after we broke up he acted like he still wanted to be in the babys life. his mom was very rude (shes wayyy overprotective and he lives with her.) a while went by and i didnt hear from him. emailed him to tell him i was going to the doctor he just said okay thanks. a while went by he put on myspace that hes moving out of state in a couple days. i asked him over the phone he said he was moving to get a job and a car. it was obvious he only said that to make me angry or to get my attention bc he also said he wasnt sure about moving he would have to talk to his dad first. he called me selfish and said its none of my business if he moves, he dosent have to tell me things because hes not my "bff", as he said it. he deleted me from myspace dosent call. so its been months and ive gotten used to the idea that he wasnt going to be around. ive bought clothes, gone to doctors, found out babys sex, got furniture all without him. im 18 weeks now. out of nowhere his mom called today and left a message to check up on me and baby. i got used to the idea of doing this myself and now all of a sudden i figure they plan on being around? its been five months. they havent contributed anything! i dont want him in my childs life. hes not father material. he lays on his moms couch and plays video games all day. he lies about serious things for attention and i dont trust him one little bit. his mom talks bad about me. why would i leave them alone with my child? i dont trust him to not take off with the baby. do i have to let him in my childs life legaly? i dont want him or his mom around. like i said we were only togheter 3 months. i can always find someone later in life who will be a way better father than he could ever be! it may sound like im being selfish but i honestly think it would be best for the baby if he werent around. he cant just come and go as he pleases.. what can i do legaly to make sure hes not around?

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Ive been w/ my fiance for 5yrs we been thru a lot and raised our extended children together the best we know how. His ex was cool knowing my fiance and i were "just dating" not until she found out we are getting married. Just out of no where land she started giving all the signs of wanting my fiance back in her life for some reason,extra sexy clothing, giggling,flirtatious laughs and pointless conversations. It hurts cause my fiance has mutual verbal-custody of their kid and he’s afraid that she will do something stupid like taking the kid away forever. Also his kid is noticing how mommy acts around my fiance and how she flirts and laughs,so now their kid wants them back together,(which is understandable for a kid) their the kid calls my fiance while w/ the mommy and ask if my fiance can join them two for dinner, activities etc. although my fiance declines the offer, It’s just really frustrating to have to deal w/ it. I recently postponed the ceromony because im starting to feel uncomfortable,My fiance doesnt mind her gestures and says he is just trying to keep the peace, its just the very mention of my fiances ex i get upset, i dont know why i get so angry, i do have a reason but its not as big as i feel, i just know she’s doing things to spite me and destroy what we have and i know she wants what i have, why now? I guess i really feel for the kid i just feel as if im the person who is destroying my future step childs life by taking daddy from mommy. I too have other kids so its just hard trying to please everyone.Ive confronted the ex regarding "boundaries" so that i too can be cordial when we must cross paths, she got all upset thinking i was trying to tell her what to do with her kid, she only took the "im angry" approach only because it came from me, she really didnt look at the big picture. she wanted to make a big deal to get attention of course from my fiance. Im a smart woman and she is too, and i cant help i see straight through her decit. what should i do?

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i wanted to start a religion that has nothing to do with a higher being just morals. where certain things are unforgiveable such as rape child abuse things like that . it would also be a sin to be rich and have poor neighbours ( what i mean by that i dont mean your not allowed to have luxuries but if you make over 200 grand a year or something like that you would have to make sure your neighbours dont go withour clothing and food and shelter . and when they are doing well of they must do the same for you when you are down on your luck. drinking and smoking is a personal choice . the rules i was thinking of are you are not aloud to do is hurt women or children your not allowed to be a theif not allowed to do ANY DRUGS marijuana is not a drug by the way… you must not criticize others for there bielefs if you created a child with another woman it is manditory to stay in the childs life and just basic life morals like that
NO IT IS NOT CHRISTIAN I SAID NO HIGHER BEINGS JUST LIFE MORALS I DO NOT BEILIEVE IN ANY GOD OR HIGHER BEING WHAT SO EVER
THANKS FOR THE HUMANISM ANSWER I LOOKED IT UP FOUND IT INTERESTING BUT THIS ANSWER IS NOT COMPLETE. ON HUMINISM THERE IS NO LIST OF RIGHTS AND WRONGS AND UNFORGIVABLE THINGS

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I read a few days ,that if you are a family on benefits (those who cant be bothered to work) are going to be paid up to £3000 a year for 3years, if their children attend school regulary, and they turn up for parents evening etc… (What I thought was part of a parents role in a childs life)

Is the real answer, to stop their handouts, dont charge them any rent, steralise them and send them food and clothing parcels containing the bare minimum to live?
Now obviously I’m not pointing the finger at those who genuinely need help. I’m on about the lazy scum, who breed lazy scum. Surely this would drag them away from Jeremy (I make a living off of white trash) Kyle, and down the job centre!!!!

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