Hello all, I have a rather strange question (considering that im a guy) here goes. Do many/most women lose their “figure” after a pregnancy? More specifically does the widening of the hips cause women to lose their “nice” “perky” curvy butt? The reason I ask is because I recently graduated from college and I moved back to my hometown, I recently ran into and began talking to an old high school crush, who in high school 5-6 years ago was a “10” as far as her figure. Back in high school she had a really nice waist to hip ratio and a really really really nice curvy “perky” butt. Today she does not quite have that stunning figure she now has a five year old son, very wide hips and a wide butt that isn’t nice and curvy anymore.
She tells me that her pregnancy ruined her body, and it’s apparent, in high school she was a cheerleader, and wore “figure flattering” not slutty clothes, today she is a lot more covered up. She still works out often and goes to my gym so I often see her there, but apparently she cannot get that stunning body she used to have. I used to be crazy over this girl even though back then she wouldn’t even give me the time of day, instead she gave it to her loser baby daddy that ruined her life. I am still somewhat attracted to this girl but I cannot get over the fact of how her body was ruined. I am not being hypocritical here as I take good care of myself, eat well, workout 4-5 days a week and have the size, cuts and six pack to show for it. I have talked a good friend about it and was told I can do way better, also because I graduated summa cum laude from a prestigious university and she only has a high school diploma. I also realize this but I still can’t get over the crush I had and I find it hard to accept her physical transformation and the fact that she is now a mother.
Im really not, a stuck up prick as you of you are saying, I mean I like this girl, she seems to be the same person its just that the transformation she went through is so drastic. Also my education has nothing to do with it, its just something my friend brought up, that may cause a clash of attitude, values and outlook due to the discrepancy.
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