As most people know he is dead. :o ( It is so sad. Hubby & I have been very blessed to meet him 6 years ago at the LA Zoo. To make a long story short, Hubby knows the head of the zoo, Mike Dee. And we were invited to meet him and listen to him speak there. So we have pictures of us with him, terri and Bindi. So our son knows who he is. our son is 4 months older then their son Bob. I told him that he is with the angels and that he will watch over all the people who love animals. But, I don’t know what else to tell him. Any ideas?

PS: Does anybody have the address to his zoo? I can’t get on to his web site.




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I am 19 and 4 months pregnant. I recently found out in a 4D scan that I am having a baby girl.

I am studying to be a solicitor and my fiancé Matthew is 21 and is a teacher. We have been together 6 years and recently got engaged. We have a lovely house and love each other so much.

However the baby is not Matt’s. The baby is the result of me sleeping with a guy Adam while me and Matt briefly split up. We used protection but it split. Me and Matt got back together 2 weeks later. Adam is 29 and unfortunately I did not know that he is married and has two sons aged 8 and 7. He is wealthy and although he and his wife are not properly together they are still married and money is soooooo important to him. He’s wealthy, has his own businesses and flaunts his cash. He’s contacting me looking to know about the baby and begging me to keep quiet. He wants to keep me quiet with money and presents! He hasn’t told his wife and doesn’t plan on. He is really happy and excited about our baby girl but wants her to be a secret. How is this possible? Everyone thinks the baby is Matt’s even my parents and Matt’s parents!

Adam is ringing me constantly. I want to change my number. He’s calling to my house. I want to move. He wants to go to scans. I don’t want him there. I want Matt. I want Matt at the birth. Not Adam. I want Matt’s name on the birth certificate. Not Adam’s. Can I do any of these? Can I put Matt’s name as the father or would I have to put no father’s name on the birth certificate instead of Adam’s?

Sure thing is that my baby won’t have Adam’s surname. Adam doesn’t want to tell his wife about his daughter but expects that he can get what he wants! He has even got his friend to buy our baby LOTS of pink clothes and has planned an interior designer to decorate a nursery for her in my house! I’m glad that he’s enthusiastic but he’s dominating. Adam and Matt dislike each other and none of my family like Adam. I have lost weight and Adam shouted at me saying I am not eating! Before I became pregnant I was a US size 0 / UK size 4 but have went up to a US 2/4 or UK 6/8 depending on types of clothes. Adam said I dress slutty and look like a blonde playboy bimbo whore! He makes me sad and I cry but I know if I tell Matt then he would go crazy at Adam and that would cause more difficulties.

Matt is 100% supportive and wants the baby to be his. Adam is causing major problems. There IS 3 people in our relationship and 1 baby. LOTS of people are advising me to have an abortion even though I am 16 weeks! But apparently if I act quickly it will all be alright. Someone even said "Think of your baby as one of your stupid blonde moments!" Matt & Adam want the baby but people are harassing me about an abortion…and I feel sick thinking about them wanting me to kill my little girl.

What do you think about these people? Should I listen to them? What should I do about Adam & Matt?
Matt KNOWS the baby IS NOT his…But he is acting like it IS his
I don’t want to lie to people…but Adam won’t let me tell the truth because IT WILL cause more problems.. such as his divorce, his business will lose money etc. That is why he doesn’t want the truth to be told and if I tell it he WON’T talk to me again




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Baby socks!?

Have you ever lost your babies socks at the most inconveniet time? Me and my son were walking through the mall- not shopping just walking to get out of the house. I had him in his snugli and I just happen to touch his feet and both of his socks were gone! Mind you it is really cold here right now so people must have thought I was an unfit mother for bringing my 4 month old out without socks! I thought it was kind of funny. I walked back and forth looking for them and cold not find them. Anyone have any funny stories about there babies clothes or socks?
Kat-that is too funny! i always say my son was the fastest sperm and people look at me like i am nuts.
I also always find my dogs get ahold of them when they fall off. maybe they digested them thats why there are so many missing ones I still cant find…lol
I usually never put socks on him but it was part of an outfit he got and it looked so cute that i couldnt resist!
just a thought- i have seen the footed sleepers for children up to 6 years old. try target i have seen them there




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My only child daughter is 6 years old and going into first grade. Also where is your favorite place to shop for back to school clothes.




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I am a single mom of a boy age 8 and a girl age 10. We have lived in my mothers’s basement sharing the same space for 6 years, now we have a 2 bedroom apartment and I being the parent took the larger room and gave the children the smaller room. I have not received to much applause for doing that from the grandparents but everyone else, such as friends and my sister thinks it’s the priviledge of being the parent and the children should graduate to a larger room after cleaning and learning to keep their smaller room in order. I just want to know what others think about this set up I have with my kids.




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but still i lost custody through children services he is now 6 years old and i want him back in my care. help please.




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I have a question about circumsision?




As my son is now 6 years old, I havent helped him bathe in awhile. He is pretty self dependent. He had a doctors appointment the other day. My husband had to help him clean for a urine sample. He said he has a lot of skin still covers some of the head of his penis. My son has complained since he was younger that he was sensitive down there. Could he have not gotten enough cut off as a infant? Will this grow out as he gets older?




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Where can i buy cute baby bows and clothes at?




My friend has 3 girls ages: 9 months, 6 years, and 7 years.
I keep them alot and i like to dress them cute when they are with me..and im also expecting a girl so i was wondering if there are any moms on here who like the same and where do you buy your bows and clothes at.
The youngest girl wears 6-9 months clothes and the two older girls wear 4-8 in girl clothes
And i like BIG PRETTY bows.
i was just hoping someone could give me some websites that have bows and stuff for little girls..

Thanks!
And i like flowers and stuff like that…..and Zebra print
I have not been able to find any Zebra print clothes for the girls….
@ Un World Life: THANK YOU! I love them so much!! I love love love the headband!!
@ NewMomma:thank you so much i like Etsy.com better than Amazon.com.
they are prefect!!!




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My granddaughter is stealing things.?




She’s 6 years old. She lives with me as well as her mother. Parents not on speaking terms. Dad just got remarryed. He has a new step baby. Her time is spent equally between both parents. She has been coming home from school and daycare with other kids toys, clothes, and things and tries to tell us she got them from her dads house. She even took home a childs glasses.

She shares a room with me. Lately she has started "hoarding" things. Dolls, toys, baby clothes, food and even my best jewelery either beside the bed next to the wall or under the bed.

This is driving me nuts since I have no idea how to deal with this. Per daycare she does this when her step mom picks her up to.

Any suggestions?




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Is there a rule about baby showers?




I’m pregnant with our 3rd child. Our youngest will be 6 years old in a few months and we have to start fresh. Just wondering if there was an etiquette for baby showers, I had one for my 1st child not for my 2nd




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