Is it appropriate to have a baby shower for a 13 year old unwed mother?
Friday, July 23rd, 2010 at
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I think it’s a great idea. This way she gets a lot of help that she needs because 13 is such a young age and I’m sure she would appreciate getting gifts to help out. It will also let her know that her friends are there for her and accept that she is having a baby without being judgemental.
how about a tube tying party?
She’s gonna need all the toys and baby clothes she can get.
Well, there’s no point in denying her a baby shower. She’s lucky she has a supporting boyfriend.
If she’s planning on keeping the baby, it only makes sense that she gets help with stuff for it.
Having a baby is hard enough WITH maturity and a partner.
of course it is. just because it’s a rough start and not the best decision doesn’t mean they and their families and friends shouldn’t
celebrate the birth of their child.
I hate to break it to you, but until you turn 18, you are not men and women, and as well, until you turn 18 you have no rights. I don’t know if it is a good idea to give a 13 year old a baby shower, because it is in a way saying that it is okay for her to be having sex and be pregnant. She needs to realize that what she did was wrong, and a party celebrating what she did does not seem like that good of an idea.
I think it will be good to do a baby shower for her.If that makes her and her parents and her boyfriend happy yes it will be a good idea.Its really nice to make a baby shower for a beloved friend.Ok,the point is its a good idea.
What do you think?
A baby shower for a 13-year-old unwed mother is not inappropriate. She will need things for the baby.
What IS inappropriate is the fact that she’s pregnant at 13…
I think it’s a good idea. At least she’ll know that her friends are there to support her.
A thirteen year old unwed mother, so she had sex at the age of 12, charming girl!! Yeah give her a baby shower she could use the things herself seeing that she is still s baby herself. No wonder the world is what it is today.
You have a good idea in regard to helping her (she will need lots of caring friends). I would try to get her Mom, relatives and other friends and their Moms involved.
All I’m going to say is I find it very hard to believe a 13 year old girl would be pregnant. I don’t mean to sound indelicant, but whose the father?
i don’t think a 13 year old needs a baby shower she is just a baby herself, why encourage her it’s like telling her it’s ok and have more babies for other people to take care of
Pregnant at 13? A father at 14? And you want to have a party to celebrate? Call me old-fashioned, concerned, outraged, and totally blown away. No, you shouldn’t have a party this isn’t a reason to celebrate at all. If you want to get her things her child will need, give them to their parents because they will be raising and supporting that baby…as they both are children and unable to work to support the child themselves. They should both be scared! Having a child is a full-time, life-time commitment that you can’t walk away from even if you give the child up for adoption.
Yes, I think it’s appropriate to have a shower for any parent-to-be. One of the purposes of a baby shower is to allow friends to help the parents out with items they’ll need for the baby, and certainly a 13 year old will need the help even more than other new parents. Plus I think it’s very thoughtful of you and your friends to want to do something nice for your friend who is going through a difficult time in her life.
Just one note – it’s usual to have a baby shower fairly late in the pregnancy, so if she just found out that she’s pregnant, you might want to plan something for a few months from now when she’ll be 6 or 7 months pregnant.
no, why would a 13 year old have a baby, im sick of paying for young people to be irresponsible.
yes ever mom to be should have a shower gosh 13 and having a baby
good luck to your friend your friend needs all the support she can get having a baby is a big deal
Go for it!…she needs all the help and support she can get.
It is perfectly appropriate to host a baby shower for her and a great idea because having a baby is expensive and she will be able to recieve gifts and she will have a good time at the baby shower. It is also acceptable for males to attend the baby shower although most of the time they don’t. Talk to her mother and see if she would like to help you plan the baby shower. Good luck
ok first of all a 12 or 13 year old has no business having sex in the first place but understanding the world is severely lacking in morals these days why on earth would you celebrate the fact that some immature hormone riddled little girl got knocked up seriously if she thinks she is woman enough to lay down and have sex make her accountable for her actions and she can go get a job and pay for it herself, her poor parents are going to be lumped with the baby till she snaps out of her little all about me world and grows up! just sickening
It is completely innapropriate to have a baby shower for a 13 year old. This sends a message to other girls that it is OK to have babies at 13.
The mother should consider giving this baby up for adoption.
I think that it is a good idea and it would make her feel better. She’s going to need all the help she can get.
GOOD LUCK!!