How to make a baby boy into a true leader?
Friday, December 9th, 2011 at
6:00 pm
We have a baby boy on the way and I want him to grow up to become a courageous, charismatic, smart, witty, leader.
How do we need to treat him when he’s a little baby boy, boy, teenager etc to mold him to make him to this type of person later on in his life?
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Let him do things that way he wants to, allow him to figure out what is right, don’t be overprotective of the child. however sometimes (more often then not) the child is already "programmed" to behave a certain way.
raise him right
if you don’t have a decent idea of how to raise a child, maybe you should take some parenting classes before he arrives………………………
As a baby you need him to know that you will protect him and love him no matter what. As he grows make sure he has lots of experiences, not just "boy" things, and not just things that he will be good at or that you and your partner are good at. He needs to learn to loose and to be disappointed. Children who only do things that they are good at, grow up not knowing how to take the disappointments that life will throw at us all, and then will just give up on life because he will be so used to being the best at everything. Also, watch his personality, he may not be a leader, and that is okay. If you focus on leading and he is uncomfortable in a leader position he will grow up thinking he will never be good enough. My oldest son is a follower, and we are okay with that. He will never be president, but we need followers in this world. As long as he doesn’t feel the need to "follow" into drugs and alcohol. You will make mistakes, that is being a parent. Just let him grow in an environment that is understanding and open to all walks of life.
I understand you want what is best for your child, but accept him for who he is, let him be himself. Acceptance is one of the greatest gifts we can give our children, he’s a person not plasticine.